Tuesday, June 5, 2007

THE ART OF SEDUCTION

THE ART OF SEDUCTION ; The Complete Idiot's Guide


Book by Janet O Neal
Summary abstracted by Datingdoc


Following are some important points summarised/abstracted from PART 1 of the book :


1. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION


Enhance/Refine body features
- It's not how you look; it's how you feel

Consultant
- Image
- Makeup
- Color matching

Cloth
- Quality - fit, comfortable, sensual fabric
- Color - contrasting pastel

Voice
- tone
- expression
- pattern - X loud, rapid, mumbling, complaining, whining
- lower n slower
- smile
- voice coach


2. INTELLECTUAL MAGNETISM

Tools
- positive self-talk
- sharpening curiosity
- seeking out new experiences
- deepening zest for life

Intellectual Presence
- the way you think
- the way you reason
- how good you are at understanding other's idea; good listening skill, asking intelligent question
- eye contact ; show interest in object of desire

Be seduced by life; Curiosity
- look around
- current news
- arts
- adventurous activities
- travelling

Genius enough to admit ignorance
- you have to be willing to learn, and people will learn from you; to be interested in other, and others will be interested in you
- everyone wants to be a teacher sometimes
- nobody likes a know-it-all
- learning and self-respect are not mutually exclusive


3. EMOTIONAL SEDUCTIVENESS

Let others feel safe expressing their thoughts, and we will still treat them with respect

Be Strong and vulnerable

Emphathize
- listen with ear and heart

Resonance
- "be with" the other

Have fun together

Sharing laughter
- the best aphrodisiac
- share laughter
- never be afraid to laugh at ourself
- learn to see humour in everyday situation

For others to like you, Like Them
- Look at the person with the intention of finding qualities you like
- Practice thinking of the person in terms of good quality you've discovered

Men value confidentiality

Knowing how to handle conflict with honesty and compassion

Make her/him feel good about her/himself

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Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Away for a while

To all my friends,

I will be going away for some holiday and will be back one month later....

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Dating Doc

Saturday, January 6, 2007

Chinese Horoscope Compatibility - Snake (for Male)

SNAKE (For Male)

For those born in the following years :

1953, 1965, 1977, 1989 and 2001


Personality

The male Snake is driven to success, and may exhibit all the classic symptoms of the poor loser if balked at any point in your ascent to the top. You are a hedonist of the first water, always trim and neat, tidy and well groomed -- you enjoy playing the field and will angle adroitly to prevent being tied down by responsibilities, whether of a romantic nature or not.


You are influential in higher circles and can come off as a bit of a snob upon introduction to new faces. You are romantic and passionate, and have a killer sense of humor, with which you bait your attractive traps. You enjoy frequenting casinos, but you should learn to curb your gambling fixation, as you never manage to walk away from the table ahead of the game.


In Relationships

Snakes are beautiful people who exhibit a large amount of raw sexual appeal. They are sleek and seductive, and if they want you they will cast an emotional spell on you that won't let you stop thinking about them. However, Snakes are quite prejudiced when choosing a partner and don't just choose based on physical qualities -- they need a meeting of the minds as well.

The Snake needs a partner who can appreciate their quirky sense of humor and their oddball method of handling difficult situations. Generally, although quite beautiful and tempting to approach, the Snake does all the pursuing, picking, choosing and selecting. In the end, they will slither off with just the right mate for themselves.


Likes and Dislikes

Snakes are highly aesthetic people with very firm beliefs about what is beautiful and what is not. They like to stay in their cozy home nests. The favorite color of the Snake is red, and their corresponding gemstones are jasper and bloodstone. They are quite keen on binoculars, exotic oils and balms, and stamp collecting. They also enjoy astrology, painting, going on long vacations, and amateur photography.

Snakes dislike being interrupted while they are talking, or indeed having their own opinion on something being challenged in any way. They also don't take kindly to being misled or lied to in any way, especially where their personal life or private business may suffer in some way because of such incorrect information. Snakes will make enemies pay dearly for any sort of detrimental intrigue or infringement on their perceived prerogatives!


Compatibility with gals of different signs

1. Male Snake & Female Rat

The male Snake is a repository of strange and tantalizing knowledge that will whet the female Rat's curiosity long enough for these two Signs to get to know each other a little better. Once the awkward initial phase is past, it should be smooth sailing for these two highly cerebral Signs. The female Rat is by far the more pragmatic of the pair, but the male Snake has an agenda of his own, and they combine to serve a dual interest.

They will respect and admire each other's drive, even if they do not quite understand their final goals. It is in this shared respect of the mind that this relationship will thrive. These partners should find enough in their respective viewpoints to keep each other enthralled forever, or nearly so.


2. Male Snake & Female Ox

The male Snake should take great care not to presume too much upon his partner the female Ox's patience. Should he be too venturesome outside the boundaries of what the Ox considers their inviolable association, she will feel hurt and cheated and taken advantage of, with the result that she will put her foot down with finality upon the shattered husk of their mutual romance.

After this occurs, not all the wiles of the Snake's clever tongue can conjure a way back into her good graces. The female Ox values her companion's probing wit and vast knowledge of odd facts, and her practical streak will appreciate his assistance in her many projects. As long as he behaves, these two should be able to last a good long time together.


3. Male Snake & Female Tiger

This match may prove to be somewhat disjointed, as here we have the disparate conjunction of a cerebral nature with a most physical nature indeed. The male Snake will be frantic to get his partner to sit down and listen once in a while, but the female Tiger is constitutionally incapable of pursuing the sedentary arts for any length of time.

Without patience and caring on both sides, an exasperated Snake will finally wave goodbye, good luck and good riddance to his bored partner, who in turn will make a beeline straight to the nearest scene of action. If this relationship is to succeed, each partner will have to try very hard to understand the other's alien needs, and respect them for what they are. If they can recognize each other as equals, there is a chance, albeit slim, for permanence here.


4. Male Snake & Female Rabbit

The male Snake may soon grow frustrated at his mismatched companion's aura of practicality, while the female Rabbit will in turn experience dismay at her partner's divergences into realms of pure fancy. The Rabbit will feel threatened at her basic level of security, and will react by nagging the Snake into toeing the line.

Nagging is never a good strategy, and in this instance will chivvy the mind-proud Snake into denouncing her as his intellectual inferior and slamming the door on his way out to the nearest Mensa meeting to cruise for a new squeeze. The female Rabbit would be better off with a man who shares her material concerns with regard to the future. The male Snake's disregard for their shared future is indeed the cause of this couple's quick collapse.


5. Male Snake & Female Dragon

There is an element of possibility in this conjunction, if both partners are willing to work for it. The scheming male Snake will provide the brain power behind the scenes, leaving the female Dragon to issue the vocal proclamations while shimmering in the spotlight uncontested, as she prefers to be.

Unless the male Snake learns to open up a bit and keep the channels of communication open, the Dragon may turn elsewhere for reassurance, which will leave him feeling betrayed. Only by sharing everything can this partnership succeed. The Dragon will find her goals within easy reach if she accepts the Snake's advice on a regular basis. The Snake, too, will appreciate his radiant significant other's company as a break from life's routine.


6. Male Snake & Female Snake

These twin Snakes are in mutual awe of each other's scintillating intellects, and enjoy each other's snappy patter to no end. They excel at cooking up schemes for their future goals, and any tense situations can be defused by the gentle application of two senses of rare humor. Such a strong understanding can only serve to keep the male and the female snake together forever, as long as boredom doesn't begin to creep in and undermine the familiarity of this well-understood conjunction.

Snakes are human, too, after all, and since this Sign generally relies on a more vivid partner to provide it with distractions, two Snakes together may feel that an element of vivacity is sorely lacking. If they can get around this perceived flaw, they're golden for the future.


7. Male Snake & Female Horse

The female Horse can easily fall for the male Snake's charming intellect, and she will also be excited by his being a constant fount of new ideas. The male Snake in turn will not object to the Horse's many exploratory rambles about the earth's surface, as long as he doesn't feel like he is forced to tag along when he'd rather sit quietly at home with a good book.

The Snake can manipulate the relationship to suit himself, while encouraging the Horse in the false belief that she is in control of the situation. A sense of exasperation when faced with the Horse's near-constant vitality is only natural and can be safely suppressed, if the Snake wishes to keep things together. As long as the facade remains in place, this match will last as long as the Snake wishes it to do so.


8. Male Snake & Female Goat

Both the male Snake and the female Goat despise the routines of ordinary life and prefer to break out of the ordinary once in a while. The Goat's imagination dovetails nicely with the Snake's accumulated knowledge. The male Snake will be able to slip away from shared activities that he considers superfluous or annoying, and the Goat will be none the wiser.

Any attempt on either partner to force the relationship into a straitjacket of strict rules and regulations will result in the psychological pressure building to an explosive head that will wreck everything. It is up to the Goat's ability to tone down her need for emotional reassurance, so that the Snake doesn't feel ensnared by something he feels is outside his control.


9. Male Snake & Female Monkey

The male Snake and the female Monkey have the potential to keep themselves together via a shared interest in solving interesting problems and questions. They both enjoy a challenge and can work well together in a mental sense by bouncing ideas off of each other in deep discussion. The female Monkey can intuitively sense opportunities that the more prosaic Snake intellect may be slow in deducing with his pedestrian logic.

The two together form equal halves of the same brain. As long as the Monkey can keep her patience stable for the inevitable soul-searching that the cerebral Snake mind demands from time to time in order to feel a sense of closeness, there is no reason why these two sharp personalities shouldn't keep each other company for some time.


10. Male Snake & Female Rooster

The male Snake and the female Rooster are alike in their mutual appreciation of aesthetic experiences, and they will spend a great deal of time introducing one another to artistic thrills with which they are respectively familiar. The intuitive empathy that exists between these Signs is tremendous, and they will make a very good-looking couple in society.

The male Snake is capable of recognizing the depths that lurk behind the apparent shallowness of the boisterous and outspoken Rooster, and she in turn knows how to stroke the reclusive Snake's ego, among other things. The Rooster has just enough good common sense to always accept the Snake's honestly offered sound advice. Openness of exchange is the key to the extraordinary stability of this relationship.


11. Male Snake & Female Dog

The loving and loyal female Dog is willing to place her unreserved trust in the male Snake's superior knowledge and judgment, and in the process choke down his constant flow of unsolicited advice in just about every department of their association. The Snake is chock full of wise reassurances that go far in soothing the Dog when she becomes excited or afraid about the great unknown that lies ahead.

The dedication of the Dog, in turn, is just what the Snake needs to give him the peace of mind necessary for accurate cogitation. The mutually soothing and protective nature of this relationship is just what these two participants need to get through life. They should stay together for a very long time.


12. Male Snake & Female Pig

The male Snake enjoys attention, and can convince the female Pig to give him exactly that by judicious use of his store of odd facts to amaze and delight his intended mate. The Pig will, if sufficiently impressed, stay together with the Snake in hopes of sharing in one or two of his dazzling exploits.

The Snake may consider the Pig dim, but she isn't, and she won't be fooled for a second if the Snake attempts to pull the wool over her eyes in order to indulge his wayward passions. What's good for the gander is good for the goose in this case, and the Pig may retaliate in kind with all of the spare time the male Snake leaves her. If these two can keep their attentions from wandering, they might be able to make everything work out O.K.

Chinese Horoscope Compatibility - Goat (for Female)

GOAT (For Female)

For those born in the following years :

1955, 1967, 1979, 1991 and 2003


Personality

The female Goat enjoys deliberately flaunting conventions, especially if you perceive any sort of social injustice inherent in them. Your carefree existence makes you extremely gullible at times -- watch out or some sharp character is apt to lead you around by the nose! Hostility is simply not in your nature. Your extra helping of talent will be sure to get you noticed in the long run, no matter what field of endeavor presents itself.


You feel a great need to be the center of attention, as you cannot abide the slightest bit of criticism or rejection and require the reaffirmation of self inherent in constant praise to be able to function. Luckily, you have many qualities that will elicit praise from the right people almost as a matter of course.


In Relationships

People born under the Sign of the Goat have a morbid fear of being left alone, whether for the night or for the rest of their lives. They are very family oriented people, and would love nothing better than a suitable and stable partner with which to settle down and raise a litter of children. If their current romantic interest does not like children or big families, then they just won't be right for the Goat.

Goats will give themselves entirely to the right person and will do everything they can to maintain a stable, loving, happy relationship. This doesn't, however, mean that they will allow themselves to be walked all over or taken advantage of. If their partner cheats on them, or otherwise doesn't play according to the rules, then hell hath no fury like a Goat scorned!


Likes and Dislikes

Goats are cultured people who prefer the sort of entertainments not patronized by those of the common crowd. The favorite colors of the Goat person are pink and purple, and their corresponding gemstones are moonstone, sapphire and jade. Goats like bathrobes, broaches, peppermint oil, seashells, being massaged and opera tickets. They are consummate sybarites and enjoy pampering themselves and their bodies.

They prefer to spend their leisure time reading, eating, drinking fine wines, swimming and watching movies. Goats dislike the feeling of being separated from all of their friends and loved ones -- they like to have the support of those close to them in their endeavors. They also dislike conflict of any sort, and are very good at dodging it completely whenever it may surface in their lives.


Compatibility with guys of different signs


1. Female Goat & Male Rat

The female Goat would rather slacken the pace a notch or two than be forever careening madly in the wake of the male Rat. These two are both incurably romantic types, but they have widely divergent methods of expressing their strong feelings for each other, and may not be cognizant of what the other is trying to do for the relationship.

Active Rat boy sees what he wants and goes for it with determination and flair, while Goat girl likes to think over every move before she makes it, and if possible keep all of her exits clear in case of emergency. This diffidence may translate as a lack of affection to the Rat partner, and he may seek more demonstrative lovers elsewhere before too long. All in all, these two have very little in common and make a poor match.


2. Female Goat & Male Ox

The male Ox is able to provide the strong right arm upon which the female Goat will be able to lean. He will protect her from the world, and in turn she will offer him unlimited devotion, as well as a new and profitable viewpoint from which to observe his sustaining efforts. The Ox will assume full responsibility for the nuts and bolts of the relationship, and if anything, the Goat will feel herself stifled by his heavy hands-on approach to the situation.

If she can keep from feeling too suppressed or trapped, then the relationship will continue. If, however, the female Goat feels the need to acquire more of an identity of her own, then the relationship is doomed to dissolution. It is up to the Ox to use his serene judgment to adjust his actions and determine the outcome.


3. Female Goat & Male Tiger

The male Tiger requires the freedom of his emotions in order to enjoy life, while the female Goat also requires her own brand of freedom -- the freedom of the intellect. But she also needs a firm place to stand and confront the world on her own terms, and the Tiger is not going to provide the stability she needs.

The Tiger doesn't know how to fend off the regimented forces of life, and wouldn't if he could -- he's all about grabbing a bit of diversion while he can still enjoy it. The female Goat would be better off terminating this sorry attempt at a relationship and looking elsewhere for her security, which is why she so frequently does exactly that. The Tiger will be content with the enjoyment he had while it lasted.


4. Female Goat & Male Rabbit

The male Rabbit and the female Goat are very much the perfect mates for each other. They enjoy daydreaming together, and their unbridled fantasy life translates nicely into a rich and fulfilling sex life for this lucky couple. The Rabbit's habitual nervousness will be soothed by the Goat's attentions, while the Goat can count on the practical rabbit to make sure that all of the more mundane aspects of their shared life together are constantly kept in order.

The Achilles' heel of this relationship is the rare occasion when both the Rabbit and the Goat are upset simultaneously -- then it's a toss-up as to who will comfort who first, if at all. Most of the time, however, these two Signs are ideal for each other's emotional requirements.


5. Female Goat & Male Dragon

The male Dragon will sweep the female Goat off of her feet in the twinkling of an eye, but such a whirlwind courtship may leave dark lingering doubts deep in the Goat's consciousness. She will feel that she cannot place the faith that she needs to place in her partner in such a one as the fickle Dragon, and her instincts shall serve her correctly.

The flash and dazzle of this relationship will be grand while they last, but in the end the Goat will reach a point of commitment at the same time the Dragon begins to yawn and make motions towards the door. Both are in it for the short term, but for opposite reasons. Both parties would be better served to relegate this unfortunate incident to the storehouse of memory.


6. Female Goat & Male Snake

Both the male Snake and the female Goat despise the routines of ordinary life and prefer to break out of the ordinary once in a while. The Goat's imagination dovetails nicely with the Snake's accumulated knowledge. The male Snake will be able to slip away from shared activities that he considers superfluous or annoying, and the Goat will be none the wiser.

Any attempt on either partner to force the relationship into a straitjacket of strict rules and regulations will result in the psychological pressure building to an explosive head that will wreck everything. It is up to the Goat's ability to tone down her need for emotional reassurance, so that the Snake doesn't feel ensnared by something he feels is outside his control.


7. Female Goat & Male Horse

The male Horse is very much the rambunctious type, with energy to burn -- he is always sticking his head in where it may or may not be welcome, and apologizing afterwards if necessary. The female Goat is more than happy to go along for the ride, as she will appreciate the new vistas such experiences supply to fuel her imaginative faculties.

The problem lies in the Horse's essential self-centeredness -- he may not know when to give the Goat the extra reassurance hug she needs to cope with the stresses of life. If he won't be more forthcoming with his affections, the Goat may be forced to rely upon others for her security, and that could torpedo the relationship. All it will take is some attention to detail for these two to have a great time together.


8. Female Goat & Male Goat

These two individuals have a natural empathy with each other that allows them to communicate soul to soul, as it were. The male Goat and the female Goat understand each other's occasional need for a bit of private dream-time, and neither will be offended if the other wishes to retire. The cerebral dimension is greatly appreciated by these two patient members of the same Sign.

Unfortunately, someone is going to have to be responsible for the practical side of life, and neither person is going to come forward and volunteer, so some sort of rotating schedule will have to be ironed out between them. If the required responsibilities can be successfully allocated without too much friction, it should be smooth sailing from that point on.


9. Female Goat & Male Monkey

The female Goat and the male Monkey will never be bored with each other's company. With the Monkey's quick wit and the Goat's fervent imagination these two will never lack for things to do, and their physical mattress trysts will sparkle with erotic ingenuity. The male Monkey may not be able to provide as much reassurance as the female Goat will require, but their meeting of the minds will be too good to pass up.

These two Signs will be more than happy to overlook the few points of conflict in favor of a relationship that will outshine the stars themselves, and they are both bright enough not to tear it apart with unrealistic expectations. Truly this is a very good combination of personalities, and should last for a good long while.


10. Female Goat & Male Rooster

These two Signs have very little in common and cannot understand each other at all. The male Rooster is an extrovert with a brash outer core, while the female Goat is shrinking violet with the soul of a poetic librarian -- the personality conflict presents itself in the plainest terms.

Although the male Rooster will be able to support the female Goat financially, the female Goat will not be able to give the male Rooster the sort of unconditional praise that he needs to feel comfortable. He in his turn will not be nearly reassuring enough for the fragile Goat. She should take notes in bed for the purpose of surprising a more permanent lover in the future, but an increased erotic knowledge will be the Rooster's only keepsake left behind when he leaves for the far horizon.


11. Female Goat & Male Dog

The male Rabbit and the female Dog are honest, reliable and hardworking to a fault. They both appreciate security above all other considerations in the relationship, and since this is the case, will never let each other down. Together they can preserve their own little world free of malevolent intrusions, and when each is frightened of the unknown the other will immediately leap to reassure the delicate nerves of their intended.

On the rare occasions when the Dog is stirred to violence by an experience especially provoking, the Rabbit will be able to pour his oil over the troubled waters almost before anyone else can notice the altercation. Marriage is almost always a result of this relationship, and that right quickly.


12. Female Goat & Male Pig

The male Dog may not have what it takes to put the bizarre reveries of the female Goat into practice, which is really what she requires of a lover. His staunch assistance in keeping her in touch with reality will be alternately appreciated and despised by her in her frequent mood swings.

These two Signs should take great care, insofar as it is possible not to be depressed at the same time, or words may be exchanged that both will regret but that neither can retract. These cutting statements may serve to end the relationship before its appointed time. The male Dog and female Goat will have to learn to think happy thoughts once in a while to keep things on an even emotional keel for the sake of their precarious union.

Chinese Horoscope Compatibility - Goat (for Male)

(For Male)

For those born in the following years :

1955, 1967, 1979, 1991 and 2003


Personality

The male Goat is a complete and utter family man, and you are a fun parent, if a bit on the irresponsible side -- your spouse will feel as though they had an extra son at times. You are highly sensitive and have a well-developed sense of aesthetics. You can be very fretful and indecisive, as you are at heart a very kind and gentle soul and are worried whenever placed in positions that burden you with undue authority.


You have a very good memory for facts, figures and dates. You may find yourself stymied by the simplest of obstacles unless you build up a reserve supply of gumption. Your reflective and gentle nature leads many people to underestimate you, much to their eventual chagrin once the race is run.


In Relationships

People born under the Sign of the Goat have a morbid fear of being left alone, whether for the night or for the rest of their lives. They are very family oriented people, and would love nothing better than a suitable and stable partner with which to settle down and raise a litter of children. If their current romantic interest does not like children or big families, then they just won't be right for the Goat.

Goats will give themselves entirely to the right person and will do everything they can to maintain a stable, loving, happy relationship. This doesn't, however, mean that they will allow themselves to be walked all over or taken advantage of. If their partner cheats on them, or otherwise doesn't play according to the rules, then hell hath no fury like a Goat scorned!


Likes and Dislikes

Goats are cultured people who prefer the sort of entertainments not patronized by those of the common crowd. The favorite colors of the Goat person are pink and purple, and their corresponding gemstones are moonstone, sapphire and jade. Goats like bathrobes, broaches, peppermint oil, seashells, being massaged and opera tickets. They are consummate sybarites and enjoy pampering themselves and their bodies.

They prefer to spend their leisure time reading, eating, drinking fine wines, swimming and watching movies. Goats dislike the feeling of being separated from all of their friends and loved ones -- they like to have the support of those close to them in their endeavors. They also dislike conflict of any sort, and are very good at dodging it completely whenever it may surface in their lives.


Compatibility with gals of different signs

1. Male Goat & Female Rat

The male Goat likes a spot of calm in which to pause and reflect, and he can often remain there for far longer than is necessary. The female Rat is there to yank him back to good old terra firma against his will. The Goat is wise enough to know that he needs this sort of hands-on treatment every now and then, and will not mind being prodded into action by his prosaic counterpart.

The female Rat in turn will be pleasantly surprised by the astonishing new perspectives the Goat can provide when he lets his mind wander, and these will in turn please her pragmatic soul no end. She will therefore withhold the rough side of her tongue, unless of course she's having a bad day. These two are circumspect enough to sweat out each other's bad patches. The prognosis for this couple is not good, but they may be tempted to give it a try anyway.


2. Male Goat & Female Ox

The male Goat is a timid soul who can only benefit from the big, bustling personality of the female Ox, full of life and twice as large. She will excel at taking care of the daily routine, which the Goat loathes. His mind will then be free to wander, and as long as he can remember to give credit where credit is due for his astonishing degree of intellectual freedom, he is home free.

The male Goat is smart enough to appreciate how good he has it with the female Ox, and she in turn will thrive beneath the grateful attentions he will lavish upon her in return. Neither should feel too threatened at the loss of a freedom that translates out to loneliness for them. These two should settle down to make a happy home for themselves posthaste.


3. Male Goat & Female Tiger

The male Goat places a premium on his orderly and comfortable environment. The female Tiger is far from tame, and will blow through his safe and sane existence like a tornado. This match may be good for the short term, but the long term will never work out.

She will be bored with him, and he, after his initial fascination wears off, will be exasperated at her habitual verve. A mutual dismissal of each other as childish is in the offing. These two can never learn to appreciate even the very little they have to offer each other, and it would be better for them if they had never met. Someday they will look back upon their abortive attempts at romance and laugh themselves silly at their youthful foray into folly.


4. Male Goat & Female Rabbit

This may turn out to be the best of all possible matches as both of these Signs have good taste and a love of luxuries in common. The male Goat's imaginative nature appeals to the female Rabbit's romantic side. The Rabbit, in return, provides a safe home environment that the Goat will thrive in, by having freedom to roam his intellectual corridors at will.

Sexually these two will have many new positions to teach each other, and will never grow bored in the bedroom. In difficult times, however, neither will be able to look to the other for courage and mutual romantic support, as both are anxious creatures. This will prove to be only a slight drawback in the great scheme of things, however, and the general prognosis for these two looks good.


5. Male Goat & Female Dragon

A lack of mutual understanding can blight the chances of connection between these two Signs, unless they both learn to accept and appreciate their differences. Alliances based upon friendship and trust will be more successful than more personal ones, as female Dragons can help the shy male Goat realize the potential of his dynamic creativity.

In the realm of sexual matters, the female Dragon can't help but be turned off by the male Goat's sweetness -- she's looking for someone with a little more of the barbarian in his make-up. Stable Goat will be upset by the Dragon's effect on his immediate surroundings, and will long for peace and quiet. These two Signs will not stay together for very long.


6. Male Goat & Female Snake

Both the male Goat and the female Snake love art, beauty and harmony. As long as life remains uncomplicated, these two will rarely have arguments, as it is too much trouble. Otherwise, the male Goat may find the female Snake too be too serious, while she weighs him in the balance and finds him lacking in gumption in return.

Whether this mutual irksomeness blooms into a full-fledged quarrel that can scuttle the relationship before it has even had a chance to weigh anchor and leave the harbor remains to be seen. It is a truism that couples get out of an affair what they put into it, and if these two put forth just a little effort, they can make it work. Otherwise it's splitsville for the happy pair.


7. Male Goat & Female Horse

The male Goat and the female Horse compliment each other by being that which the other lacks. The male Goat will feel secure with the female Horse, but the relationship will still manage to stay interesting enough to please the ever-dynamic Horse, as both of these Sins are unstable and irresponsible people who can't abide a regular routine.

The male Goat wanders in his mind, while the female Horse prefers her wanderings be executed in a more physical sense. As long as these two Signs can see that they are engaged in what are essentially the same pursuits via two different methods, they can use this similarity of temperament to cement what can prove to be a very long-lasting relationship.


8. Male Goat & Female Goat

These two individuals have a natural empathy with each other that allows them to communicate soul to soul, as it were. The male Goat and the female Goat understand each other's occasional need for a bit of private dream-time, and neither will be offended if the other wishes to retire. The cerebral dimension is greatly appreciated by these two patient members of the same Sign.

Unfortunately, someone is going to have to be responsible for the practical side of life, and neither person is going to come forward and volunteer, so some sort of rotating schedule will have to be ironed out between them. If the required responsibilities can be successfully allocated without too much friction, it should be smooth sailing from that point on.


9. Male Goat & Female Monkey

The female Monkey is sharp as a tack and uses her brainpower to more fully enjoy life, a quest to which the male Goat as partner is most suitably adapted. The two will serve to tempt each other to new experiences and pleasures, primarily related to travel opportunities.

The Monkey will easily determine the Goat's likes and dislikes and will play upon these to get her own way most of the time, but the Goat will feel more secure because of all the attention paid to him and won't really mind this hands-on approach to the relationship on her part. He may feel some uneasiness at her desires for independent downtime every now and then, but if the two are comfortable together it is doubtful that either would ever feel the need to disrupt their shared bliss.


10. Male Goat & Female Rooster

The male Goat can derive a great deal of satisfaction from waltzing about the room in the female Rooster's shared spotlight, but in the end he will desire a greater comfort quotient than she is prepared to allow him. She is also highly unlikely to allow him equal billing past a certain point in this relationship -- the old bait and switch routine.

The male Goat needs time and space to dream his dreams and put them into action, and the female Rooster will want to be on the go constantly, which will prove divisive. This basic conflict between the mental Goat and the physical Rooster is the unfortunate flaw at the heart of the gem. It is unlikely that these two will see this combination through to any sort of successful conclusion.


11. Male Goat & Female Dog

Both of these Signs will have a craving for new and exciting shared experiences, but the cautious nature of the female Dog will lead her to back off long before the male Goat is tired of dreaming up new schemes to implement. He can be carried away sometimes by his own extravagance, which is why she is important to his life -- the Dog helps to keep the Goat's feet in touch with the ground.

Synchronized depression can be a hazard for these two moody types, as if this occurs there will be no one to raise both of their spirits, and the resultant tandem sulk could have unpleasant divisive effects on an already tenuous situation. An effort to look on the sunny side of life could be just what the situation demands -- otherwise this couple could be a wash.


12. Male Goat & Female Pig

The male Goat and the female Pig will be more than happy to give each other the space to pursue their own interests, without being so distant that the relationship self-destructs in the starting gate. Both of these aesthetically gifted individuals appreciate the finer things in life and the arts and will find much to praise in each other's company.

The female Pig is a fount of advice that may help to bring the male Goat back to reality once in a while, while he, in turn, can give her a broader perspective and keep their shared life interesting. The Goat's occasional fits of temper, whether justified or not, can be calmed by the cheerful and pragmatic Pig, and she can always provoke a smile. This duo can be very healthy for each other, which explains its durability in the face of time.

Chinese Horoscope Compatibility - Rabbit (for Female)

RABBIT (For Female)

For those born in the following years :

1951, 1963, 1975, 1987 and 1999


Personality

The female of the Rabbit Sign is a very ambiguous personality indeed. You are good at being the perfect hostess, and prefer company to being alone. This having been said, the best part of having company for you is that they must eventually leave and you can be left to your own devices -- no desire to have a large family on your part, as your mothering impulse is atrophied, for better or worse.


You are naturally elegant in all matters of style, dress and manners. You have a very acid tongue, and are fond of humor verging upon insult. Your tender, wistful nature is stiffened by your determination to provide yourself with the material necessities of life. You excel in the mental manipulation of others to serve your own ends.


In Relationships

The Rabbit lover would never dream of wearing his heart on his sleeve. The Rabbit seems aloof, yet underneath is sensual and loving - a tough facade protects a tender interior. Rabbit folk are romantic yet realistic, generous yet mercenary. Rabbits are, whether male or female, completely in tune with the feminine part of their psyche.

Their mothering instinct compels them to nurture others, and they have an innate love of home and family. They will eschew casual romantic connections in favor of someone serious, and don't mind waiting for a very long time for just the right person to turn up. Their highly selective natures can cause them to miss the boat sometimes, and it is important for them to learn how to compromise on their desires.


Likes and Dislikes

Rabbits are generally very cozy and quiet people who like to stay at home nights with a good friend or a good book. The favorite color of the Rabbit person is pale green, and their corresponding gemstones are crystal and pearl. Rabbits like good music, fine wines, fabrics of all kinds, and recreational artwork. Their favorite pastimes include writing poetry, hiking, pottering about in the garden, and chatting with friends.

Rabbits dislike having their daily routines disrupted for any reason, and in general have a healthy distrust for disorganization in all of its many forms. Rabbits are very sensitive about their personal space, and dislike the sort of people who indulge in casual contact at the moment of greeting. They cannot stand the idea of kissing their hellos!


Compatibility with guys of different signs

1. Female Rabbit & Male Rat

Female Rabbits are peace-loving entities, and the energy of the male Rate in pursuit of his narrow goals may upset his intended's sense of interpersonal harmony. Rabbits that can't jump to the Rat's tune may find themselves in for the sort of vicious tongue-lashing that they really don't bear up well underneath.

The male Rat may wish to keep the couple together under his absolute authority, but the female Rabbit may be unsettled by the intensity of his pursuit and refuse the engagement. The Rat pursues and the Rabbit retreats, until both are convinced that they are wasting each other's time with a relationship that never was. This pairing is probably not the best idea that either of these two mismatched personalities ever had.


2. Female Rabbit & Male Ox

Both of these characters appreciate the positive benefits of a comfortable home environment. The male Ox and the female Rabbit are most alike in that they value dependability, safety and security over anything else -- and especially over the sort of emotional histrionics that most couples are heir to.

The Rabbit can easily persuade the frequently stubborn Ox in to sharing her viewpoint on nearly any aspect of the relationship, and in such a way so as not offend his pride as well. The Ox in his turn provides a rock of stability upon which the couple can rely in times of stress, both spiritual and material. The prognosis of this match is very good -- it is to be greatly encouraged by all concerned.


3. Female Rabbit & Male Tiger

The male Tiger and the female Rabbit share a sense of adventure, but the Tiger is willing to go several shades beyond where the Rabbit would prefer to stop and acquire a sense of perspective. Both of these Signs would benefit from a steady love partner, but neither will prove to be what the other desperately needs. Without a personal anchor, the Tiger is lost.

The question will be whether the Rabbit is able to provide him with a home life enticing enough to counterbalance the joys of roaming about. If she can do this, the Tiger will not mind the constraints on his freedom, and instead will devote his not inconsiderable charms towards the perpetuation of a happy home life, which is the cornerstone of success for this ambivalent couple.


4. Female Rabbit & Male Rabbit

The happy conjunction of two members of the Rabbit Sign promises unlimited harmony, peace and prosperity for both parties. No fiery arguments here -- these two like to keep everything on an even keel and run a tight and dignified household. They consider discord beneath them, and will do their best to smooth any ruffled fur that may arise.

The two Rabbits will attempt to retreat from an unpleasant world into a safe environment of their own making, but they should keep one eye on the skies of reality so as not to be caught unawares by any horrific eventuality that may arise to threaten their artificial paradise. Few couples are so well matched as this one, and it will only strengthen as time passes.


5. Female Rabbit & Male Dragon

This just won't work -- these two Signs are very different in temperament and outlook, and will not succeed in bridging their vast interpersonal gap. The female rabbit prefers a stable, safe, orderly existence that will present itself as the ultimate in boredom to the go-go Dragon man. The Dragon, in turn, serves merely to upset the Rabbit's regimented life with his constant comings and goings, events and premieres.

Stormy emotional dialogues are the Dragon's stock in trade, and no matter how handsome he may be, his tirades will soon alienate the understanding Rabbit nature. Soon she'll be trying to figure out methods of making him go instead of methods to make him stay. This is a bad match that should be abandoned as soon as possible.


6. Female Rabbit & Male Snake

The male Snake may soon grow frustrated at his mismatched companion's aura of practicality, while the female Rabbit will in turn experience dismay at her partner's divergences into realms of pure fancy. The Rabbit will feel threatened at her basic level of security, and will react by nagging the Snake into toeing the line.

Nagging is never a good strategy, and in this instance will chivvy the mind-proud Snake into denouncing her as his intellectual inferior and slamming the door on his way out to the nearest Mensa meeting to cruise for a new squeeze. The female Rabbit would be better off with a man who shares her material concerns with regard to the future. The male Snake's disregard for their shared future is indeed the cause of this couple's quick collapse.



7. Female Rabbit & Male Horse

The male Horse and the female Rabbit are capable of a great deal of shared affection. The Horse is a very physical Sign, and will serve to protect and titillate the Rabbit to no end, thus satisfying her great need for a secure and happy home life, as well as regular dosages of sex. The Rabbit in turn will provide the Horse with a safe haven in which to recharge his batteries after his vibrant assaults on life.

The male Horse's raging passions will serve to boost the female Rabbit's fragile ego. Good examples abound here, if eyes will only be opened and see. These two widely disparate characters are very good for each other, and they should stick together as long as they can stand the taste of each other's beneficial medicine.


8. Female Rabbit & Male Goat

The male Tiger requires the freedom of his emotions in order to enjoy life, while the female Goat also requires her own brand of freedom -- the freedom of the intellect. But she also needs a firm place to stand and confront the world on her own terms, and the Tiger is not going to provide the stability she needs.

The Tiger doesn't know how to fend off the regimented forces of life, and wouldn't if he could -- he's all about grabbing a bit of diversion while he can still enjoy it. The female Goat would be better off terminating this sorry attempt at a relationship and looking elsewhere for her security, which is why she so frequently does exactly that. The Tiger will be content with the enjoyment he had while it lasted.


9. Female Rabbit & Male Monkey

The devious male Monkey may by his very nature bring out the worst side of the cunning female Rabbit in what amounts to emotional self-defense against his constant barrage of cutting witticisms. This couple may not be able to go the distance romantically, as the Monkey will find the Rabbit's company somewhat dull, while the Rabbit in turn will require someone more supportive.

When the Monkey gets bored and decides to see what's around the next bend in the road of life, he'll ditch the female Rabbit without a second thought. She probably at that point will be happy to be out from under his scathing gaze. This couple just was not meant to be in the great scheme of things, and neither party will take events too much to heart.


10. Female Rabbit & Male Rooster

On no account should these two Signs attempt any sort of serious relationship. The male Rooster's tendency to voice criticism without thinking beforehand will send the female Rabbit running in no time, while in return she will prove unsympathetic to his problems, which she will view as essentially trivial.

This lack of respect for what he will see as major setbacks will not encourage the male Rooster to stick around and work to salvage things. These two fail to see each other as viable personalities all around, and maybe they both need a little more time to grow as people before committing, at least to each other. They each desire what the other lacks, and nowhere is this lack felt more keenly than in the bedroom after hours. The match is fated to end badly.


11. Female Rabbit & Male Dog

Both the male Dog and the female Rabbit appreciate a stable home life, and will work hard to establish one together. They are each the type that mates for life, and both will persevere in allowing the relationship to find its own level. Any anxiety attacks in the middle of the night will be quickly soothed, and both will achieve new levels of calm decisiveness through their mutually strengthening association with each other.

When his temper bursts forth, she will be able to smooth down his raised hackles before he causes any trouble for himself. It is not a question of whether these two will get married, but when they will do so, and whether there will be a cash bar at the reception or free drinks all around to celebrate the joyous occasion.


12. Female Rabbit & Male Pig

The male Pig and the female Rabbit have a shared approach that they use to make their relationship worthwhile in each other's eyes, and it works wonders in term of emotional viability. Both of these Signs like a trouble-free environment, and if he should want to step out of an evening, she won't mind as long as she isn't woken up at an unreasonable hour by his return.

The female Rabbit is a fount of good common sense, and her first rule is not to fix something that isn't broken. She doesn't exactly enjoy going to bat for the foibles of her partner, but she is willing to do so when the need arises and has the skill to extract the male Pig from any situation he might stumble into on his own initiative. These two Signs make an excellent couple, and manage to get along like a house on fire in the process.