Book by Janet O Neal
Summary abstracted by Datingdoc
Following are some important points summarised/abstracted from PART 1 of the book :
1. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
Enhance/Refine body features
- It's not how you look; it's how you feel
Consultant
- Image
- Makeup
- Color matching
Cloth
- Quality - fit, comfortable, sensual fabric
- Color - contrasting pastel
Voice
- tone
- expression
- pattern - X loud, rapid, mumbling, complaining, whining
- lower n slower
- smile
- voice coach
2. INTELLECTUAL MAGNETISM
Tools
- positive self-talk
- sharpening curiosity
- seeking out new experiences
- deepening zest for life
Intellectual Presence
- the way you think
- the way you reason
- how good you are at understanding other's idea; good listening skill, asking intelligent question
- eye contact ; show interest in object of desire
Be seduced by life; Curiosity
- look around
- current news
- arts
- adventurous activities
- travelling
Genius enough to admit ignorance
- you have to be willing to learn, and people will learn from you; to be interested in other, and others will be interested in you
- everyone wants to be a teacher sometimes
- nobody likes a know-it-all
- learning and self-respect are not mutually exclusive
3. EMOTIONAL SEDUCTIVENESS
Let others feel safe expressing their thoughts, and we will still treat them with respect
Be Strong and vulnerable
Emphathize
- listen with ear and heart
Resonance
- "be with" the other
Have fun together
Sharing laughter
- the best aphrodisiac
- share laughter
- never be afraid to laugh at ourself
- learn to see humour in everyday situation
For others to like you, Like Them
- Look at the person with the intention of finding qualities you like
- Practice thinking of the person in terms of good quality you've discovered
Men value confidentiality
Knowing how to handle conflict with honesty and compassion
Make her/him feel good about her/himself
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